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Hmmmmm maybe!  Don't know for sure!

YES:  Merely for the simple fact that guys have it made in the shade.  Not to worry about annoying hormones and monthly stuff is the BIGGEST factor I'm sure for most women.  Child birth is "easy" and there is a way out of the pain of that..its called drugs.  The other, for maybe women that are mothers is that somehow, somewhere the main responsibility always falls on her.  She must know at all times, where _________ is, when _________ occured/will occur, phone numbers, bills, monies, kid duties 95% of the time regardless on how attentive father is, just it falls on HER head to motivate.  A mother is pulled in a million different directions, eevrybody always demanding time of her.  Its tough at times. 

And besides the fact of how society views women STILL gets annoying at times.  I must admit, it is definatly getting better and we are getting out of patriarchial society, but we do have a ways to go yet.  No, not a woman libber, just I don't see why we are still objectified, protected, "screwed over", put in place to fill quotas, viewed as to being weak, etc etc etc....sometimes the society does indeed contradic itself!

Somedays it would be nice just to take off the boobs and put on a penis.  Be single minded a single focused driven.  Be confident in own self to have an ego...even a small one.  Be viewed as the strength and power behind something, not the soft and cuddly.

Don't get me wrong, IF I were a man, I would be a gay man (a manly gay man) as I do like men too much to be a straight man though!


NO:  Back to the hormones...I don't want to be around a women that goes all PMS on me, with tears and raging freaking emotions.  That's just nuts.
I don't want to be the guy standing next to the woman that he loves while she's in labour, having a contraction, screaming at him..."You did this to me to f&%^en jerk!  You will never touch me again!" then proceed to watch any more thoughts of getting it on go up in smoke!
I don't want to be the guy that gets yelled at by some independant woman for merely showing some curtesy and opening the door for her.  I don't want to be the guy that is falsly accused of sexual harassment because I gave a position to a more qualified male, not merely a male.
I don't want to be the guy that works hard all day long, to come home and find wife/mother of children in a frazzle because the dishwasher flooded and although she can fix it, she expect yout o do it.  Or the guy that knows nothing about car mechanics, yet is repeatedly asked, "You know, my car makes this sound____!  What do you think is wrong?"  

And lastly, I don't want to be the guy that gets gay me (me as a dude) hitting on...that is THE worse! ;)


PS sorry for the long one, but hey...THEY asked for it.  Oh and typos may be abound, its late, errr early and I'm tired therefore I ramble and my typing sucks at times.  See!  there I go again...ramble ramble ramble.....  

I got my pain meds today. Its still going in me and its like being drunk. Wobbly eyes, tingly fingers, tongue, incoherent (wow spelled that one right the first time) thoughts, and the tip of my nose is numb. It is my buzz of the week. I can't touch alcohol anymore, but man, I get "drunk" via BC med. The buzz will be wearing off once I take the line out, around 8:30pm-9. Its tough when Troy's not around. The girls have to walk home from school, I can't help them with any thought processing homework, and playing with dog is out of the question when I still have the line in. Making supper is a blast as its usually something uber simple like soup and sandys as I wobble when I stand! Fun times. At least right at the moment, I am pain free..including the sinus headache I had this morning. Oh well, we are surviving and the girls are stepping up to the plate.

I just spent the last 2 hours helping C study for her social exam next week....tons of medieval history. Surprise surprise, she already knew most of it, but the finer deets, it took me on the google site to clarify my muddled brain to explain what I was trying to think. Much fun! I think she got better answers that required for her level, but it will surprise her teacher in the end. Throughout the year, she has "educated" her "educators" on some finer details when it comes to medieval history. SCA...live history, not read history!

Ooop! I hear the buzzer from the stove...our frozen lasagna must be ready. Phew! That was tough.

Being stupid seems to be the norm.  

It seems that mankind has this virus called Stupiditis. This virus is highly contagious and is not particular whom it affects. The stupid virus eats away common sense. It has been so bad over the past, oh, 10 yrs or so, that common sense is just about extinct. 

Stupiditis can be deadly. Many people have died due to Stupiditis.

How does Stupiditis work? It affects the brain of its victim into thinking that what they are doing is right and smart. It eats away their sense and sensability. A person doesn't know they are affected by this virus. Even when approached by somebody that still has common sense, the victim denies that they are stupid. Stupiditis affects the victims grip on reality.

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I got the kid from school..the other going to Camp Pringle to be taught how to do archery.  Hmmm maybe she can teach them a thing or two, yet again.

But anyhow, I got a kid here who is beating on my excerise ball (excerise being the key word here), and she's saying, "I'm bored.  I'm still hungry.  Can I go on the computer?"

My answers are as follows: So.  Tough.  No .

Dog was being a knuckle head today by bugging me with that look.  The look that says:  Ball?!

I'm still trying to figure thing LJ stuff out, but I'll get it.  Doesn't seem too difficult, just got to be at the right place at the right time.  And the brain has to work...mine isn't at the moment, or overly much. 


Oh thanks to all that are already my "friends".

Life is so blah right now.  Its blah outside, blah inside..blah blah blah.  I almost fell asleep today at massage.  It felt great but totally suited my blah mood.  My blah mood is induced from allergies and the anithistamines that I have to take.  blah blah blah.